Advice for women dating married men
We see each other many hours a day, we love each others’ company, but I am worried about the wife. But it seems to us that he certainly must be lying to someone — at least to his wife. He bought his wife over from another country, then she changed.He has not had sex with her for over a year, and she does not want to go back to her country. We doubt he is keeping her as up to date about you, as he “appears” to be keeping you informed about her. If you pursue this romance you are implicitly endorsing a model for behavior in life and love.
I also read hundred articles about mistress and other woman. Moreover, what is it with people who want to have their cake, etc, etc? The bottom line here is a relationship of infidelity based upon deceit and lying, hardly the foundation for starting a healthy relationship with someone new. I would like to ask your opinion of a married man who is only interested in his wives girlfriends. That the children has not to be asked in the school by their classmates and friends? Why should only the mistress/other woman be exposed and being asked always? A mistress also is a daughter of someone, a sister, she also belongs to a family.
A couple of months later he asked me if I would spend the night with him in a hotel for his birthday... but I have a teenager at home & I was not sure that I wanted him in my home yet.
This was a highly pressured, sweep me off my feet kind of whirwind romance - he offered everything in the world...
Do you know the improbability of acheiving a solid relationship with a guy who acts like a victim? What exactly would bring about such a remarkable change in him? Now let’s look at your potential role in such an affair. In starting new relationships, we advise you to choose guys who are totally free and clear.
This is no walk in the park, no matter how you cut it. This means not being married — unhappily or otherwise.
We say throw this one back into the sea, and go on about your life as if there is not really an important opportunity here for anything of lasting value here.